Men aren’t really mysterious. They like simple things like perfume or pretty hair. They love to be flirted with and are generally much less complicated than women in terms of attraction.
They find a girl that they like and they are excited to get to know her. They don’t analyze the relationship, their feelings or yours the way that you would. So, stop analyzing and thinking too much and get out there and meet someone. If you are wondering how to attract men, read on for 5 simple tips you can implement right NOW!
1. Smile And Laugh
It’s simple, it’s easy and it will make you feel good. Men love happy women. In fact, people in general like other people who are happy. Joy is contagious and everyone wants to be around someone who is smiling and full of life. When you are out and about and hoping to meet people simply put on a happy face.
Positivity is contagious and the people in the room will be drawn toward you. It’s not difficult to understand why. Isn’t that what you want in friends and lovers? Be the kind of person you would like to date and you will attract men with a lot to offer.
2. Wear Your Hair Down
This sounds simple because it is. Men are simple. It’s not that their shallow but men just have more basic attractions. They are more visual and they love pretty things. Men find women’s hair to be very attractive. Most men have very short hair and one thing that sets women apart from men is the many hairstyles and pretty things that can be done with your hair.
Men love feminine women and this is a simple way to show your womanliness. They tend to like long hair but even if you wear it shorter the most important thing is that you style your hair and make it cute. Try spraying a little bit of perfume in it, as well. There is nothing hotter than good smelling hair on a lady.
3. Don’t Wear Too Much Make Up
Make up can be a great way to accent your best features and show off your femininity. Most men like women to wear a little bit an excessive amount of make-up can start to look like a mask. Men may wonder what you are trying to hide behind layers of foundation and bright red lipstick. You can begin to come across a bit like a clown the more make up that you wear so just be reasonable with the amount that you put on and don’t use make-up as a cover up for who you really are.
Let them see your pretty eyes and your natural skin tone. As a matter of fact, accentuate those things. Just try not to play up everything. Find the best things about yourself and show them off. If you have gorgeous eyes, then play them up. If your lips are your favorite feature, then wear a bright lipstick.
Don’t think you are fooling anyone with thick foundation and overdone mascara. People will be distracted but not attracted and if you two start dating he will know what you really look like at some point. You shouldn’t want him to feel deceived or let down at what you ACTUALLY look like.
4. Wear Feminine Clothing
You don’t have to wear bright pink dresses and bows in your hair in order to look feminine. Men don’t even really tend to notice your whole outfit and they don’t typical have a strong sense of style. They are attracted to femininity in its most subtle forms. The smallest details can add a dash of femininity. If you are wearing sneakers and jeans, for instance, put on some sparkly earrings or a feminine headband.
Try throwing on a cute, girly purse or a little bit of lip gloss. These are the things that he will notice. These are the things that set you apart and make you womanly and attractive. A great dress or a pair of high heels are gorgeous but a cute girl in shorts and a T-shirt with fun jewelry and cute shoes is just as attractive and enticing to the right man. Just be the best YOU that you can be.
5. Be Confident
This last tip is, by far, the most important. Confidence is very sexy. Let men see that you like yourself and that you are comfortable in your own skin. Stand up straight, look people in the eye and speak clearly. If you want people to believe that you are great then you need to believe that you are first. You cannot expect a man to give you confidence. No one can give you confidence.
You will be setting yourself up for pain and disappointment if you look to a new boyfriend to give you self-esteem. That must come from within. If you aren’t confident then get that way. See a counselor, read a book or try new things and make new friends. Working on yourself is the most important thing that you can do to meet men.
Attracting men isn’t about being physically perfect; having perfect hair, a perfect smile or a supermodel body. It is about being a happy, confident woman who is comfortable with her femininity. You’re not going to attract every man you see but that’s OK. Be yourself and the right men will find you attractive. Why would you want anything else?