5 Ways To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back (Even If He Doesn’t Want To) – Part 2

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5 Ways To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Even If He Doesn't Want To  Part 2

3. Give Them Space

Give Them SpaceThis has to do with moving on.  Though it may be very difficult for you they may need to move on and have some independence for a while.  They may date other people.  They may not wish to speak with you for a while.

Whatever you do, don’t get angry or mean when they ask for space.  Be respectful of their need for space and show maturity and love by allowing them to have what they need.  Acting selfishly and smothering them will not bring them back to you.  It will simply drive them away.

space11Space helps love

It is not going to be easy but give them time to sort out their own feelings.  Tell them that you would like to get back together and that you hope that they will consider it.  Be clear and honest about what you feel so that you can sleep easy at night if things don’t work out in the end.  We will talk more about this later.

4. Ask Them Out Subtly

Ask Them Out Subtlytogether then asking them on a date can be fun and can give your relationship a refreshing boost.

Treat it like a first date and make it romantic and fun.  This will serve to remind them of what it was like when you two were first dating.  Perhaps you two have forgotten why you initially fell in love.  Going on a “first date” might help the two of you rekindle the spark.

Don’t have sex, kiss or do too much that you wouldn’t actually do on a first date.  Try and make it like a real first date.  Just talk, enjoy each other’s company and do something exciting and fun that you wouldn’t normally do.  Putt-Putt, the zoo and a hike are all great ideas.

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5. Be Honest/Swallow Your Pride

Be Honest Swallow Your PrideWe touched on this earlier.  Often, after a break up, we look back and think, ‘If only…” and that is the hardest part.  Most people’s relationships go through rocky phases and mistakes are made or things are said that lead to a break up.  You will have 10 times more trouble getting over your love if you know that you owe them an apology or you feel that you didn’t try enough to fix things.

If you feel that you have things you need to say then you should say them.  Don’t worry about saving face or being proud.  Tell the truth.  Apologize if you feel that you should.  Then, at the end of the day, you will know in your heart that you did all that you could.

pride1Swallow your pride

Break-ups are painful and hard.  Sometimes we feel that we should have or could have done more to fix the relationship or to make ourselves better for the person we love.  That makes it even more difficult.  If you try the 5 things discussed in this article you may or may not get your ex back but you WILL feel better in the long run.  So try them and, though it may not seem like it now, things will get better for you!!

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10 COMMENTS

  1. I agree that these all seem realistic, however I’ve recently been giving my ex some space but the difficult thing is we have 3 kids together so we still have to have some communication with each other. For the most part we are civil to each other but there are times that he still treats be badly when I’m just trying to ask hiim what I think is a simple question. By the way he is with someone who has 5 kids and they just recently got a job together. He wants “her” to get to know my kids but I’m set against it because I feel like she should be taking care of her own children not mine. Not only that but she claims they’ve been together for an entire year to piss me off. Just things I’ve seen and heard about her make me not want my kids around her at all.

  2. There is a greater tendency to over compensate when you are looking to compensate for a perceived fault in any given relationship.
    However, I am not trying to condemn you, making you feel
    low, instead, that could be a strong reminder and warning so that you have
    to treasure your love one, for him not to leave you anymore.

    By doing so, you could end up saving yourself a great deal
    of heartache if, for some reason, the relationship does not fare well again.

  3. that But I’m afraid that if I do it won’t end up too good with me and my boieryfnd . That’s a big red flag. If you feel that by you telling your boieryfnd about his best friend hitting on you is going to jeopardize you and his relationship then it doesn’t seem as solid and as good as you’ve made it out to be. SO my first word of advice is to tell your boieryfnd what is going on. If he seems to turn it all on you and make it out to be your fault then you need to dump him and dump him FAST before he decides to dump you. If your bf remains with you without any problems and his friend continues to do this then you need to be very firm with him and let him know (b/c idk how firm you were the 1st time w/ him) that he HAS to stop. And that you are not one of those girls that puts up with being disrespected! If in the scenario where everything is still fine with you and your bf after you tell him then he needs to step up and put a stop to his friend who’s to put it plainly is sexually harassing you.

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  6. Aaah, ik herken dit helemaal. Hoewel ik pas negentien ben, gaan veel van mijn vriendinnen soms wekelijks en zeker maandelijks naar de schoonheidsspecialiste. Ik ben daar altijd een beetje bang van weggebleven, het idee dat iemand liefdeloos je hele privé bikinibosje eraf zou rukken beviel me niet zo. De prijzen ook niet. Maar ik moet toegeven: het is toch wel lekker om je eens in de zo-veel tijd zo te laten verwennen en je vanbinnen hartstikke mooi te voelen in je kale garnalenvelletje.

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